What Do I Need for the Morning of My Wedding? The Complete Getting Ready Checklist

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What Do I Need for the Morning of My Wedding?

The complete Australian bride's getting ready checklist  ·  Est. 2011  ·  Over 90,000 brides

You have spent months planning the ceremony, the reception, the flowers and the food. But the morning of your wedding — the getting ready part — is where the day actually begins. It is the part your photographer will capture first. It is the part your bridesmaids will talk about for years. And it is the part most brides underestimate until it is almost too late to sort.

01

Getting Ready Outfits

Bridesmaid pyjamas or robes

Matching getting ready outfits pull the morning photos together and make everything look coordinated without feeling overdone. The most popular options are satin pyjama sets — short sleeve and pants, or cami top and pants — and satin or lace robes. Many brides choose pyjamas for the earlier part of the morning and robes once everyone is ready. Order at least three to four weeks before your wedding to allow time for personalisation.

  • Bridesmaid pyjamas or robes — one per bridesmaid Most brides choose matching sets so the photos look coordinated. Order 3–4 weeks before your wedding. Shop bridesmaid pyjamas + robes →
  • Bridal robe — something special just for you A luxe satin or lace robe at a different style to your bridesmaids creates a beautiful distinction in photos. Something you will wear again. Shop bridal robes →
  • Personalisation — names or initials embroidered on robes or pyjamas Allow at least 3 weeks. Most brides who personalise say it is worth every cent. See personalisation options →
  • No bra or socks on the morning — they leave marks for photos Bra straps and sock marks show up in photos and can take time to fade. Wear something easy to step out of. A pair of beautiful bridal slippers keeps feet comfortable and photographs beautifully. Shop bridal slippers →
02

Bridesmaid Gifts

The morning of your wedding is the most natural moment to give your bridesmaids a gift — before the ceremony, while you are all together in your getting ready outfits. A beautifully packaged gift box makes the moment feel considered and gives your photographer a lovely detail shot.

  • Gift boxes — one per bridesmaid, presented on the morning A beautifully packaged gift box makes the moment feel special and photographs beautifully. Shop bridesmaid gift boxes →
  • Personalised accessories — bags, cards or keepsakes Practical and personal always lands better than novelty. Something they will actually use again. Shop bridesmaid gifts →
03

Breakfast for Your Bridal Party

This one gets skipped more than you would think — and it shows. A long morning of hair, makeup and photos on an empty stomach is a recipe for low energy and frayed nerves.

What works well: A grazing board or platter — pastries, fruit, cheese and crackers. Easy to pick at between appointments. Sparkling water alongside the champagne. Organise it the night before so there is nothing to think about on the morning.
  • Grazing board or platter organised — prep the night beforeNothing too heavy or messy. Easy to pick at between hair and makeup appointments.
  • Sparkling water alongside champagne — it is a long dayNerves and champagne on an empty stomach is a bad combination. Keep everyone hydrated.
  • One bridesmaid nominated to make sure everyone has eatenIt should not be your job on your wedding morning.
  • Eat a proper meal the night beforeA big breakfast on wedding morning nerves can be too much. A good dinner the night before sets you up well.
04

The Wedding Morning Emergency Kit

Every bride should have one. A small bag packed with the things you hope you will never need — but will be incredibly grateful for if you do. Pack everything into a small pouch the night before and hand it to your maid of honour to carry through the day.

Hair + Makeup
  • Bobby pins + hair ties
  • Travel hairspray
  • Blotting papers
  • Lipstick in your wedding shade
  • Waterproof mascara
  • Concealer
Clothing
  • Double-sided fashion tape
  • Safety pins — multiple sizes
  • Stain remover pen
  • Small sewing kit
  • Spare nude undergarments
Body + Health
  • Paracetamol + ibuprofen
  • Antacids
  • Blister plasters
  • Deodorant
  • Breath mints
Just in Case
  • Portable phone charger
  • Cash — small notes for tips
  • Spare earring backs
  • Clear nail polish
  • Good quality tissues
05

Emergency Contact for Vendors

Give every single vendor — photographer, celebrant, florist, hair and makeup, transport — the name and phone number of one person who is not the bride. On the morning, your vendors should be calling your maid of honour or mother of the bride with questions, not you. Choose someone who is calm, decisive and knows the plan. Share your full vendor list and run sheet with them the week before.

Print this section and share with all vendors before your wedding week.

06

The Night Before

The calmer your night before, the smoother your morning will be.

  • Steam or iron all getting ready outfitsSatin and lace crease in packaging. Ten minutes the evening before saves a lot of stress on the morning.
  • Remove nail polish from toenails if wearing open-toe shoes
  • Prepare tip envelopes for vendorsCash in labelled envelopes for photographer, celebrant, hair and makeup artist. One less thing on the morning.
  • Charge all devices — phone, portable speaker, portable charger
  • Print your vows — do not rely on your phoneBatteries die. A printed copy is your backup and also feels more meaningful to hold.
  • Confirm your shoes are broken inWear them around the house for at least a week before the day. Blisters are very common and very avoidable.
07

Hair and Makeup

Good hair and makeup artists in Australia book out six to twelve months in advance for peak season. If you have not booked yet, this is your most urgent task.

  • Hair and makeup artist booked — confirm call time
  • Running order confirmed — bridesmaids first, bride lastBride goes last so hair and makeup is freshest for the ceremony and portraits. Build in buffer time.
  • Inspo photos saved and shared with your artist
  • Trial done at least 4 weeks before the wedding
  • Remove jewellery before your hair appointmentNecklaces and earrings catch on tools and can disrupt your style. Have a dish or tray ready to keep them safe.
  • No heavy perfume on dress or neckline areaIt can cause staining on fabric. A light spritz on the wrists or in the hair is fine.
08

Logistics to Confirm Before the Morning

  • Who is holding the rings — confirm with best man or ring bearer
  • Who has the marriage certificate
  • Transport to the venue — driver, timing and route confirmed
  • All vendor call times in one place and shared with your emergency contact
  • Getting ready space confirmed — mirrors, light, steamer
09

The Wedding Photo Checklist

Share this list with your photographer before the wedding day so nothing gets missed. Every image on this list is something brides wish they had when they look back.

Getting Ready
  • Outfits hanging before anyone dresses
  • Bridesmaids in getting ready outfits
  • Bride in getting ready outfit
  • Gift presentation to bridesmaids
  • Champagne toast — bridal party
  • Bride with mum or someone special
  • Bride alone — a quiet moment
  • Detail — rings on a dish or bouquet
  • Detail — shoes
  • Detail — invitation + perfume
  • Detail — jewellery
Getting Dressed
  • Dress on the hanger before bride
  • Bride stepping into dress
  • Buttons or zip being done up
  • Veil being placed
  • Shoes being put on
  • First look — bride in full outfit
Ceremony
  • Groom waiting at altar
  • Bridal party walking down aisle
  • Bride walking down aisle
  • First look — bride and groom
  • Exchange of vows
  • Exchange of rings
  • First kiss
  • Signing of marriage certificate
  • Walking back up the aisle
  • Confetti or petal toss
Portraits + Family
  • Bride and groom alone
  • Full bridal party
  • Bride with bridesmaids
  • Groom with groomsmen
  • Bride with parents
  • Groom with parents
  • Both families together
  • Any special family groupings
Reception
  • Table details and styling
  • Cake detail
  • First dance
  • Parent dances
  • Speeches
  • Cake cutting
  • Bouquet toss
  • Candid guest moments
  • Final send-off
10

Your Morning Timeline

Use this as a starting point and adjust based on your ceremony time and the size of your bridal party.

Night before
Steam outfits, prep emergency kit, tip envelopes, charge everything, eat well, print vows
3 hrs before
Hair and makeup begins for bridesmaids. Breakfast set up and ready.
2 hrs before
Photographer arrives. Everyone already in getting ready outfits.
90 mins before
Bride into hair and makeup.
60 mins before
Gift presentation to bridesmaids. Champagne toast.
45 mins before
Bride into dress. Veil, shoes, jewellery.
30 mins before
Final portraits. Emergency contact confirmed. Leave for venue.
11

Meaningful Moments to Slow Down For

In all the planning and logistics, these are the moments most brides say they wish they had been more present for.

A quiet moment alone before you leave

Before the ceremony begins, give yourself five minutes. Take a breath. Look around. You have done everything right.

A private moment with someone special

Your mum, your grandmother, your best friend — whoever that person is. Ask your photographer to capture it without you having to ask in the moment.

Reading a note from your partner

If your partner has written you a note, save it for the morning. Your reaction will be one of the most genuine photos from the day.

Phone on do not disturb from the moment your photographer arrives

You will not want to miss this morning looking at a screen. Everything else can wait.

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